I blogged for quite long, so I wondered why didn’t the fucking wordpress even saved a draft.
So I was saying that the equation of having 5 people in the house proved to be a dreadful one, with the drama unfolding so soon into the combinations.
So anyway, it all started this morning when it was such a nice weather to stay in.
When Dad and I were heading out, I reminded my mum of the technician coming today to install a phone line in the hall since the only phone line has always been in my room.
She asked why not install it in her room and I started saying it is also for the maid in case of emergency. She started saying how she would be home anyway, and I replied saying that when she is in Malaysia, and the maid and baby are in Singapore, it will be more convenient.
She got upset.
She started sarcastically saying, “Oh, I see! Baby and maid in Singapore, I return to Malaysia lah.”
Obviously that wasn’t what I meant, and I
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Anyway, I am no longer in the mood to re-blog.
The series of things that happened today made me rethink a lot.
I have decided to uproot Minibean, and I spoke to Dad about it. He sounded very down and sad, understandably, but he respected my decision on what is best for her.
I know it sounded very much like impulse, but nah, it is really something I would want to do, to make sure she grows up well and have a healthier environment.

Think your mum probably felt threatened with the arrival of your helper. She was somewhat the caregiver while you were busy, and I guess she enjoyed her role as grandmama, hence she’s extra touchy about anything that could mean her spending less time with the baby?
I could be wrong but that’s what I gather. Hang in there