Not trying to analyize you.. just commenting on what your post made me feel and think of. You know, that is the beauty in what you write.. it just doesn’t open us up to what you are thinking, but many times it makes me think and remember things in my past.

I really like when you write like this, but I agree with what was said.. blog for you and you alone.. that is where the true beauty is

shall leave it

snake: Hurhurhur. Must be do too much evil deeds la you.

I think I just need to relive those moments and acknowledge them as part of me, rather than something i deny for so long.

noah: Thanks.. glad to hear that.

@l: Wow, it was almost a blog entry by itself.

Thanks.

You spoke of some stuffs which I agree with.

Still, I think most of them meant well, just perhaps in a way which I am not so comfortable with..

Even where they have a wide variety of experiances,their ability to learn from it is limited by analytical ability, perspective,emotions as well as time available.Besides does anyone ever go into anything with an open mind ?

I saw that post by anonymous and it moved me somewhat.To flippantly write off your life, your ideas and the way you do things is at the very least insensitive.Even if a person has the best of intentions and is indeed correct,one should never write off anyone else.
Secondly what makes anyone so certain of themselves to the degree that they can give such “advice” generally let alone specifically to you? Are they that sucessful and happy?

I hadn’t realiased that people have taken the it upon themselves to save you by interrupting your personal space and liberty by telling you want to do on MSN.How self righteous of them !

I find myself very uncomfortable at the very least with people that insist that they have the sole inalieanble monopoly on life, meaning of life and happiness.

Actually what you wrote wasn’t harsh.Its actually perfectly true.How can one be offended by the truth ? If anything your offering, should actually contribute to Anonnoymous by giving him/her something to reflect upon.Whether it is of worth to annonymous (re: para 2)

Your doing good by even acknowledging and by default seiveing through the information that is presented to you.It is indeed confusing because everyone runs their lives in their own way.Often the way they do it and perhaps even succeed is more a result of the vagaries of chance rather than to do with any plan. By logically developing your self you have a better chance of finding what is right for you.And that is what counts.

PS- People judge because they are too lazy to think

Seriously, its probably good that you look back at your past & examin your life. Wished I could do it. Sss….:I

Here’s a rose for you lady.

==> oh i can understand that perfectly well.

==> i tink wat you should do should do.

stories are meant to be heard, and not to be judged…

blog space crammed all those, and thats why most people dun dare to blog about themselves anymore..

Hence, sometimes when the comments are not in sync with what the post is trying to get across, it is just unfortunate people make judgements and prescribe a dose of medicine just because they think in a certain way.

thats why, i had briefly mentioned it in my blog about smart asses, cos they do exist, and many had msged me in MSN to tell me what to do, in the name of God’s children.

All the different things, and some, not even in tune with the situations.

So many, so different, and it gets confusing, and frustrating.

And I would rather get the support, and not personal suggestions of what is right, or wrong, especially from anonymous people whom you have no way to establish their intentions.

its like when you sneeze, and people are rushing to give u antibiotics, flu medicine, when its just dust that itch your nose.

I am sorry if I did sound harsh when trying to get my point across. i was just typing the flow of thoughts, and puzzling thoughts that came to mind, not with anger.

Comments are welcomed, and is there a need to take a drastic step to not comment/read?

Hmm, that’s your take, and I shall not tell you what to do. I respect that.

Thanks anyway. take care